Eyes Wide Open

Eye Openers: 2 Signs you may be in need of rejuvenation

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul... They indicate if we’re happy or sad; they sparkle with excitement and cry with laughter. But as we age, the eyes can also misrepresent how we feel. Heavy upper lids can make us look angry. Puffy and wrinkled lower lids can make us look tired... and, well, old.

No doubt about it, the eyes are the focal point on the face, and as such, it’s no wonder eye rejuvenation surgery (blepharoplasty) was the third most performed cosmetic surgical procedure last year, according to statistics published by the American Society of Plastic Surgery. Blepharoplasty, a surgical procedure that can repair these signs of aging, can be performed on healthy individuals under local anesthesia, right in the TFI office-accredited surgery suite. Dr. Few is a worldwide expert on eyelid surgery and has received special, advanced training in this field. If you are unhappy with the appearance of your eyes and would like a natural-looking correction, schedule an appointment with Dr. Few to determine what cosmetic options may be available to you.

Lip Service

When it comes to the perfect pout, what do your lips say?

While we used to frequently encounter that so-called "trout pout" of the last decade, today there’s definitely a backlash against any enhancement that looks obvious and “overdone.”

“It’s about enhancing your natural lip contours,” says Dr. Few. “If you try to change the shape, you could have a very unnatural-looking result.”

But how do you know? Dr. Few offers up 5 lip tips that will wipe the pout off your lips and leave you all smiles:

1. The upper lip shouldn’t be larger than the lower lip.
   “Although Julia Roberts has a larger upper lip [and pulls it off!], it’s generally an unnatural proportion and will result in an unnatural looking lip,” says Dr. Few.
2. Enhance your natural lip definition.
   “Don’t just make your lips bigger. This is a common mistake that creates those unnaturally protruding ‘duck lips’.”
3. Don’t expect to erase all your lip and mouth ridges and folds.
   “If you inject too much filler, the skin will stretch and create what we call ‘sausage lips’.”
4. Maintain your filler. (Restylane lasts approximately 6 months.)
   “Regular maintenance of your lips will create a more natural look, so don’t wait until it disappears to get a refill.”
5. Avoid permanent fillers in the lips.
   “While the idea of a permanent filler is appealing, if you don’t like your result, you’ll have to have it surgically removed. As we like to say in the industry, permanent fillers, permanent problems.”

Rethinking Anti-Aging

Media love to jump all over the still young and beautiful who feel compelled to stop aging in its tracks before it even begins. (Hello, Botox Babies!) If you think about it, it’s the quintessential attempt to “anti-age.” Imagine: no lines, no wrinkles and, yes, no sign of life’s experience… pros and cons to be sure.

But is that what we’re really after, anti-aging? I’d venture to say, most of us wear the odd line proudly. My very own are indications to the world that I’m not a baby and have indeed earned the respect that goes with my age and experience. Of course, I don’t want ALL of them left unchecked. (Yes, I do like my Botox, thank-you-very-much!)

So in a recent conversation with plastic surgeon and industry leader Julius Few, MD, of The Few Institute in Chicago, Dr. Few told me that he doesn’t use the term “anti-aging” in his practice. Wow. (Right?) I was intrigued by his perspective and it made me stop and ponder how the industry has changed and is continuing to change.

Let’s start with the Botox Babies phenomenon of the past decade. Pretty obvious. We don’t want to let time slip by and become the 50-something-year-old woman who faces the hard choice of (a) major surgery to get the results she wants or (b) settling for less-than-significant results with less invasive procedures (fillers can’t always replace a facelift!).

But that doesn’t mean we need to start erasing all signs of aging before they begin to avoid the “big” surgical procedure. According to Dr. Few, it’s all about timing and customizing your cosmetic treatment protocol based on the way your particular face and skin age (we all have different aging traits). The idea is to begin an individualized, step-up approach to facial rejuvenation that combines less invasive procedures with selective surgical procedures—at the right time, over time.

The take home message? It’s all about gradual, subtle change that changes with your aging face, rather than trying to change your face.

So it isn’t about anti-aging, it’s about managing the aging process selectively and strategically, embracing elements of aging while maintaining a youthful quality to your skin and facial contours. It’s that age-old (pun intended) expression: Age with grace.